Wednesday, October 19, 2011

The Trials of Teaching, as well as more Travel


No presidents this week, alas, life is hard.  I did get my ticket home, so I will be back in the States 2 months from Saturday (December 22nd)!  I’ll be home for 2 weeks, most of which will be spent on the couch catching up on USA network shows as my face recovers from getting my wisdom teeth pulled (don’t I know how to plan a great vacation?)  I’m looking forward to seeing my friends and family.  Assuming the travel agency does change my ticket, I will also get a free trip (or extended layover) in Poland.  I’m looking forward to it.  But that’s next year, so back to Georgia.

Last week my classes continued as normal.  My 6th graders are now split up for good, so I simply face the challenge of planning lessons out of a book not suited for these kids.  I don’t want to veer too far off from the curriculum because that will only harm them in the future, not to mention I have no idea how to write curriculum for 6th grade beginner English students.  I probably could, but I don’t want to.  More and more, I like some of my students and have fun with them, but I realize how much my heart is not in teaching.  It’s in talking with the people around me, traveling, and knowing more about the world around me.  That’s encouraging as I spend too many hours working on grad school applications.

Last week I also got my first private student in a very Georgian manner.  A fellow teacher asks me if I want a private student who comes to her for private geography lessons.  He’s in 12th grade, and I thought he was from a nearby village of Toneti.  My teacher asks me to think about it, and if I could have lessons at my house.  I tell her I have to ask my host mom.  Although my host mom is incredibly chill, I still procrastinated until right before I headed off to school the next day to ask her.  She said she would ask my host dad and that afternoon tells me he said it would be better to have the lessons at school.  Having no problem with that, I took advantage of one of the last sunny and relatively warm days and go walking, stopping at another teacher’s house.  After a while, my host mom calls me and tells me to come home.  A million problems run through my head (she’s never done this before) and I hurry home.  Of course, she asks if I ran home since I made it so fast (Georgian girls go very slow, and you all know how fast I walk).  There is no problem; she’s simply sitting and drinking coffee with another policeman’s wife.  She then tells me that I can have lessons at home because the kid turned out to be a relative.  So very Georgian.  He then comes over and we try to discuss a schedule and price.  Thinking he’s from a village and not wanting to gouge him, I quote him a cheap price on lessons.  He says he’ll think about if he wants 1 or 2 lessons a week and the schedule and he’ll let me know.  On Monday, my host sister walks into my room and tells me he wants a lesson.  My host family asks if I can lower my price (which is already about ½ the price of lessons in Tbilisi), but I say “no”.  He must have given in, because he then comes over, laden with books of practice tests.  I found out he's actually from Tbilisi, so I'm not sure why he comes here for tutoring.  We go through some of them, and I found I had survived my first tutoring session.  Of course, he hasn’t told me when he wants the 2nd lesson this week, but I’m hoping he doesn’t just show up.  If he does, I’m going to make him agree to a schedule.  In general, I’m just going to see how this works out.  Since I am in Georgia, trying to pin down anything seems difficult.

That was probably the most exciting part of my week, aside from learning how to play some new card games from my host family.  I like spending time with them and am more and more, which is making grad school applications even harder to work on.  This has been on my mind a lot since my first application is due on Monday.  Oh joy!  I’ll be so happy when they are all done.  Next semester I can use that time for more serious Georgian and Russian study.

This week has been considerably more interesting at school, namely because I’ve been on my own.  My main co-teacher has been absent for the first three days this week, and I don’t know when she’ll be back.  I’m really hoping she’s back tomorrow, because otherwise tomorrow will be a nightmare.  One of her husband’s relatives died in a car crash over the weekend, so I don’t begrudge her being gone at all.  I’m just not sure how I’ll survive in a class with 1st graders who only (sort of) know A, B, C, and D.  So far I’ve had an interesting time trying to instill discipline.  Georgian discipline involves yelling at kids and pulling on their ear/hair, both of which I’m not a fan of.  I have mostly tried to keep the classes busy, but they’re so noisy, so I’ve said ‘Be quiet’ about a million times.  They didn’t really know what it meant at first, but they do now.  Several kids tried to tell me the Georgian, but I am taking this week as a chance to give them an almost entirely English only classroom.  It only kind of works.  I’m also trying to teach the children to be quiet and raise their hands if they want me to call on them.  The traditional Georgian way of getting called on is to hop out of your seat, wave your hand around, and yell “mas, mas” repeatedly.  (Mas is short for ‘mastsavlebeli’, which means ‘teacher’).  They are slowly learning.  When they do, I will feel quite triumphant and have a modicum of peace in my class.  The great thing is about half the class always wants me to call on them to speak/go to the board.  The problem is, only half of those kids actually know the answer.  It was strange the first few times a kid was dying to be called on when he or she did not know the answer.  That would not happen in an American classroom, for sure.  I suppose the humiliation factor isn’t there.  I have succeeded a bit in maybe a small bit of humiliation as I collected copious notes, a cell phone, and a few pens.  It’s hard to decide what to do when kids use their pens for spit wads. If you take the pens away, then they can’t write.  If you let them keep them, they blow spit wads at each other.  I also threw one kid out of my worst class when I could think of nothing else to do with him.  You’re not supposed to do that (this lack of real consequences is a major problem here), but no one commented on it, and it made that class a bit more bearable.

I’ll stop complaining about my kids for now.  I’m sure once my co-teacher returns, life will go back to normal.  One of the nice things is that I feel more like a real part of my school now.  One of my fellow teachers even commented to me that they all just think of me as another teacher now, part of them.  That felt good. 

Now onto my weekend adventure in Mtskheta and Tbilisi.  We did not have school last Friday because it was Svetitskhovloba, which you can read about here.  Basically it is Mtskheta’s big holiday, celebrating one of the most important churches in Georgia, Svetiskhoveli.

I went to Mtskheta on Friday for this because I figured I should see as much of Georgian life as possible, and also another TLGer had come to Tbilisi/Mtskheta (Mtskheta is 30 minutes from Tbilisi, so basically a suburb) for his birthday.  The streets were filled with a lot of the same festivities as Tbilisoba (the festival in Tbilisi the weekend before), except there was less meat and the church had roses and flowers around a lot of the icons and was all lit up.  I met up with my TLG friend and a few of his Georgian friends, who proceeded to feed me snacks before treating us to lunch.  I think I've mentioned how incredibly hospitable Georgians are, and here was another example.  After lunch, the Georgians left, and I went with the other TLGer to the archeological museum.  It had some crazy old shards of pottery and other archeological finds, but my mind did not really feel like appreciating things from millennia ago so I breezed through the museum.  A lady there told us about an archeological site so we went there.  I think she said that with our tickets we got in free to the archeological site, but the guy who should have collected our money was passed out, so it didn't matter.  The site was not that impressive.  Let's just say that in America, if we had ruins that old, we would have made a huge deal out of it, but maybe that's because Georgians have centuries of history and a lot less money to throw into tourist attractions.  Actually, the place had signs in English, so it wasn't that bad.   

Another friend then met us and we wandered around the festival and spent some time in front of a stage that I hope was meant for children.  There were lots of adults dressed in costumes (fox, clown, chicken, etc) dancing to really awful music.  Random pyrotechnics and confetti accompanied this display.  It was weird but people seemed entertained.  We walked a bit farther and there was a stage of kids performing who were significantly better than the adults in costume.  Go figure.  We walked around and found a guy with a few boxes of bottles of homemade wine.  Assuming it would be good, one of my friends bought a bottle.  It was the worst wine I've had in Georgia by far, probably halfway to being vinegar, which was such a disappointment.  We went into the church, which was way more impressive than when I had gone before because it was lit up, smelled like beeswax candles, was filled with faithful parishioners, and had flowers around the icons/graves, etc. 



Pretty soon we headed back to Tbilisi.  Two friends and I were going to another TLGer’s apartment so we decided we should bring some wine.  Having grown averse to bottled wine, as it is too expensive for our tastes, we went looking for some cheap jug/homemade wine. I asked a saleswoman in a grocery store if she knew of anywhere nearby where we could get some homemade wine, hoping for better luck than earlier that day.  The woman said there was nowhere nearby.  In America (well, in America this situation would never happen for several reasons), that would be the end of that.  But I’m in Georgia, so she asks the next customer if he knew.  He told me he knew of a place about 800 meters away, and he could take us in his car.  Again, in America, I would never, ever agree to this. But, we conferred, and we decided this was worth pursuing.  So we followed him to his car, where his wife was (sigh of relief there).  We drove for a bit until he stopped, locked his wife in the car, and took us into an open door with "Chateau Telavi" on it. Of course, the guy working there was a relative of our driver, so our driver dropped us off, and, lo and behold, we were in a winery.  The man explained that he had just been cleaning up, but he let us sample the 3 kinds of wine they had in vats there.  The white was good, and the reds were OK.  Of course, the white ended up being 20.50 GEL a liter and the reds 3 and 4 GEL.  We went with the 3 GEL red and got a 3 liter container.  The guy asked me how many of us there would be.  I said we would have friends, probably about 4.  He assured us that 3 liters would not be enough, but was mollified when I told him that the others would also be drinking beer.  The old man was actually incredibly nice and even kissed our hands goodbye after sending us in the right direction.  As I was the one speaking with him (in Russian, of course), I asked for directions and successfully navigated us back to where we needed to be.  This is a huge feat, which many of you will appreciate.

The next day I headed to the train station to go to the market there.  I had explored it some before but found a whole new world full of anything you could possibly want to buy.  It reminded me of markets in Russia and made me quite happy as I whiled away a few hours there.  I found some cheap second hand scarves and tried to find a cheap hat but couldn't.  Some old woman selling socks said she had hats at home so if I came back on Sunday, she would have one.  It also felt weird looking for cold weather items on a warm, sunny day in Tbilisi, but in Manglisi it is much colder.  Sadly, when I went back the next day, this woman was nowhere to be found, but I did manage to find a nice hat that was in my price range.  I also completed the entire transaction without relying on my Russian, so that was pretty exciting. 

I then wandered around Old Town Tbilisi until I stumbled upon the greatest find of the weekend, a tea festival!   

Intrigued and incredibly pleased, I ventured inside and got to taste some honey, tea, and cheese.  I then started walking back to my hostel and met another TLGer, who was on her way to meet other TLGers, because Georgia is a very small world.  I showed them the Caucasus Tea Festival, and since it was less crowded, we got more samples of cheese, tea, and honey.  We also got wine, jam, and an explanation of what the festival was about.  The Caucasus Business and Development Network put it on as part of their ongoing efforts to show that despite political conflicts, businesses can work together and need to work together.  So, the tea, wine, cheese, etc. comes from various parts of the South Caucasus-Armenia, Azerbaijan, the region they fight over (which has delicious honey), Turkey, Georgia, South Ossetia, and Abkahazia and is all called Caucasus tea, Caucasus cheese, etc.  A pretty cool idea, plus I got lots of free samples of several of my favorite foods.  After that, I met another TLGer to investigate ‘dry bridge’.  It is just a bridge, but people gather there to sell all sorts of things, including antiques, Soviet memorabilia, jewelry, and random electronics.  It did not have a ton of souvenirs, but still happily reminded me of Moscow’s Izmailovo, where you can find any souvenir your heart desires.  Most sellers spoke Russian, even to each other, so my friend greatly appreciated my language skills.  It is weird hearing Russian and just simply understanding.  It doesn't register as Russian as much as I just get what they people are saying.  In real conversations, this doesn't always happen and I frequently have no idea what people are saying, but it's cool to eavesdrop and just understand.  I’m finally feeling like I really am comfortable with Russian.

On that note, I’ll sign off.  Soon I’ll have stories to tell of camping in Borjomi (yes, I’m going camping, and in October).  If I survive the cold and bears, I’m going to Armenia at the beginning of November.  In general, life is very good here.

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